Confused by Substack? These 10 Lessons Saved Me
If you feel lost on Substack. Read this
You open Substack.
You’ve got the urge to write, the itch to finally start…
…and suddenly your brain goes full buffering wheel.
Do I start with a Note or a Post?
Do I need a welcome email?
How do people even find me on here?
And what’s the deal with Chat?
You’re not lazy. You’re not clueless. You’re just lost in a sea of tabs and second-guessing.
I’ve been there.
When I started, I had no clue what I was doing. But over time, I figured out what actually works. And what just drains your energy and keeps you stuck. Now? I’ve got 155 paid subscribers. I make real money from my writing here.
Same platform. I’m just not guessing anymore.
Here are 10 lessons that helped me go from anonymous to earning real money from my writing. If you’re feeling invisible or feel like everyone else has cracked the code except you…
…this list is for you.
1. Stop trying to outsmart the algorithm.
You’re not losing to the algorithm. You’re losing to hesitation.
While you’re tweaking a sentence… someone else has already hit publish. And again. And again. Set a simple target:
1 Note a day.
1 Post a week.
That’s enough. Consistency kills fear.
And clarity shows up after you start, not before.
2. Substack feels like a maze? Good. Just pick a door
Notes. Posts. Chats. Live. Podcasts. Recommendations. Cross-posts.
Feels like IKEA instructions written in code. But you don’t have to master it all at once. Pick one. Use it. Ignore the rest. Learn to use one feature per month.
This will give you clarity amid the chaos.
(If in doubt start on Notes. Stuck where to start? This will help).
3. Community isn’t built by talking more
Substack gives you a mic.
But before you start belting out your life story… try listening. Comment. Encourage. Be a fan. You don’t need to live on Substack to grow here. But you do need to show up like a human.
Devote 15 minutes to comments. Then switch it off.
4. Your problem isn’t quality. It’s scope
Forget your 3,000-word magnum opus.
Start with a 500-word scalpel that solves one problem. Make them say:“That’s exactly what I needed today.” People don’t need more information. They need less to think about. We need writers who can show us the way. Be useful.
That’s how you earn attention.
5. Templates help—but they won’t carry you
Use them. They remove friction.
(My paid subs adore their weekly dose).
But don’t sound like a copy-paste carbon clone. Spill some of your weird into every paragraph. People don’t subscribe to robots. They follow you.
6. Charging money isn’t the problem
Avoiding it is.
At some point, this stops being a hobby. And becomes something people value. When someone pays you… they’re not buying words. They’re saying: This mattered.
That’s not greedy. It’s service.
7. Don’t rush paid. But don’t avoid it forever
You don’t need to monetise on day one.
But you do need signals.
Are people replying?
Saving your posts?
Coming back?
If not. Fix that first.
If yes. You’re closer than you think.
Trust builds quietly. Then it converts.
8. Your voice isn’t missing
You just haven’t used it enough yet.
Stop chasing “your voice” like it’s a mythical beast. It shows up when you do. Write more. Publish more. Say what you actually think. Six months from now, you’ll read your old posts and realise:
It was there the whole time.
9. Notes get you seen. Posts keep you there
Most people treat them the same. They’re not.
Use Notes like the handshake.
Use Posts like the heart-to-heart.
One builds reach. The other builds roots.
Together they’re a potent mix.
10. Your first dollar will break something (in the best way)
The first payment changes how you see yourself
You stop wondering if this works. You stop treating it like a maybe. And start treating it like something real.
That shift matters more than the money.
Here’s the bottom line:
You don’t need more motivation. You need a map.
This? It’s your compass.
You’re not too late. You’re not too small. And you’re definitely not too boring. Nothing changes until you stop closing the tab. So stop refreshing someone else’s stats.
And start building the version of you that writes for a living.
Some writers post for months and stay invisible. Others don’t. Join 7,037 writers figuring out the difference.




Oh my gosh, literally, what is the deal with chat? 5 months in and I am just now realizing direct messages are separate but under the same button. What do we do with the chat? 🤷🏾♀️
Can you tell I didn't read the entire thing before commenting? 🤷🏾♀️ The answer is probably there.
Sincerely appreciate how you break down how to grow on Substack step-by-step. It really is helpful for computer nerds like myself.